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The Sweet List Event Trust System
🍭 Sugary Sweet – Events we organize or co-host
â­ī¸ Trusted Source – Events from trusted contacts
🎲 Roll of the Dice – Eye-catching new discoveries we haven't tried
What each event includes:
  • Time & Place: 7:00 PM 📍 Bushwick
  • Social Battery Levels: Introvert đŸĒĢ to High Extrovert 🔋🔋🔋
  • Your People: Description so you know exactly who you'll meet and what energy to bring
  • Free or Ticketed Events: 🆓 or đŸŽŸī¸
  • Experience Marker Icons: 💎 Hidden Gem, 🎭 Interactive, 🍷 Social Hour, etc.
Whether you're seeking mindful moments or looking to make new friends, we've decoded the social dynamics so you can choose events that match your mood & energy level.
Friday, July 17
🎭 A Midsummer Ball
An immersive late-night celebration where theatrical fantasy meets rave culture inside the spectacular home of MASQUERADE. Dress up, dance until dawn, and lose yourself in a midsummer dream.
Time: 10:00 PM 📍 218 W 57th St, Manhattan
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋🔋 High Extrovert
Your People: Nightlife adventurers, immersive theater fans, costume enthusiasts, and anyone who prefers unforgettable parties over ordinary Fridays.
Your Experience: 🎭 Immersive Venue â€ĸ đŸĒŠ Masquerave â€ĸ 🌙 Dance All Night
Tuesday, July 21
🎤 Take the Night! (A Karaoke Takeover)
Grab the mic and own the room at a community karaoke takeover where strangers become backup singers, unforgettable performances are encouraged, and every song feels like the night's anthem.
Time: 6:30 PM 📍 Baby Grand LES, Manhattan
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋🔋 High Extrovert
Your People: Shower singers, karaoke legends, supportive hype crews, and anyone ready to trade stage fright for shared joy.
Your Experience: 🎤 Karaoke Takeover â€ĸ đŸŽļ Crowd Singalongs â€ĸ 🤝 Community Night Out
Wednesday, July 22
🎭 Joust's Social Deception Night!
An elegant evening of bluffing, deduction, and strategic alliances built around the cult-favorite social game Two Rooms & a Boom, where trust is your most valuable—and most dangerous—resource.
Time: 6:30 PM 📍 New York City
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋 Medium Extrovert
Your People: Board game lovers, mystery enthusiasts, improv-minded strategists, and anyone who enjoys reading people as much as playing games.
Your Experience: đŸ•ĩī¸ Social Deduction â€ĸ 🎭 White Lotus Dress Code â€ĸ 🤝 Strategic Deception
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Thursday, July 30
🎓 UNMUTED: Have the Ivies Failed America?
A spirited debate examining whether America's most prestigious universities are engines of excellence or gatekeepers of opportunity, featuring sharp arguments from both sides and an audience ready to challenge its own assumptions.
Time: Doors 6:30 PM â€ĸ Discussion 7:00 PM 📍 New York City
Social Battery: 🔋🔋 Low Extrovert
Your People: Policy wonks, higher education enthusiasts, debate lovers, and anyone who enjoys wrestling with big questions in good company.
Your Experience: 🎤 Live Debate â€ĸ 🧠 Big Ideas â€ĸ đŸĨ‚ Drinks Included

Photo Credit: Perry Bindelglass

So America just celebrated its 250 year anniversary when I was thinking about which of my friends I wanted to hit up for the next image, I knew I had to tap my friend Perry for his iconic shots of the New York City cityscape. And he did not disappoint. I think for me this image perfectly captures the brilliance of the moment, set against the backdrop of such an iconic city whose very essence embodies the American dream. We are certainly not without our significant challenges in making this country a more perfect union, but I feel images like this can take us to a certain place if even for a moment, that we all can't help but be in awe and dare I say itâ€Ļproud to be an American. Perhaps moments like these even have the possibility to inspire the kind of action that lives up to how a picture this makes us feel.

Artistic Statement

This is a photo of July 4th taken in New Jersey in 2022. I have enjoyed photographing fireworks around the country and world during my travels.  This was taken from a spot in New Jersey with a great view of the city and while you can’t hear them going off, through a long lens you get views like this. I love photograping a very many different subjects, from kids to world leaders, city scapes and landscapes, live music and sports and a lot of nature!  I hope you enjoy this image https://www.bindelglassphoto.com/New-York-City-Views/i-JWXLx3Q

For more incredible photos related to food and culture, please follow Perry Bindelglass HERE.

If you have any amazing photos you’ve taken or that you’ve come across, that you think are simply incredible representations of community and culture in NYC, please send them my way [email protected] (when sending, please include photo credit as well as the location in NYC where this was taken and when as well as a brief description no more than a paragraph long of what’s happening in the photo and why it inspires you.)

The “jokers” on youâ€Ļhopefully.

Backgammon may be over 5,000 years old, but in New York City it's enjoying an unmistakably modern renaissance.

Once thought of as a game reserved for retirees and backroom parlors has become one of the city's newest social rituals, drawing young professionals, creatives, and curious beginners looking for connection around this timeless classic.

At the center of that revival is the NYC Backgammon Club, founded by Remington Davenport after she moved to New York in 2023. Having grown up playing the game with a close-knit group of friends, Remington was surprised to discover that local backgammon events were not really a thing and wherever she did find them, it was mainly loose collections of elderly folks.

Rather than accept that reality, she decided to build the kind of community she wished existed. What began as a gathering of just 7 players has quickly grown into one of the country's largest and most vibrant backgammon communities, welcoming thousands of members yearly through weekly meetups, tournaments, learning sessions, and social events.

Whether you're a seasoned strategist or have never rolled the dice before, the club is intentionally designed to be welcoming to all skill levels. The culture of the community is to educate, with experienced players happily teaching newcomers.  Along the way, conversations flow as easily as the matches themselves, and every event feels less like a tournament and more like a gathering of friends who happen to have a backgammon board between them.

Workshops, casual play nights, competitive tournaments, and themed events all share the same underlying goal: making it easy for people to meet, learn, and hopefully, come back again.

In many ways, the club reflects a broader cultural shift taking place across New York with analog hobbies taking center stage where before it was considered more in the realm of a niche gathering.

It carries the same spirit as chess clubs, mahjong nights, vinyl listening parties, communal dinners and have become gathering places where conversation unfolds naturally around a shared activity.  

It's less about winning matches than creating opportunities for repeat encounters.

Backgammon offers a rare balance of strategy and chance, making every match engaging regardless of experience. But more importantly, it creates the perfect pace for conversation. Unlike staring at a phone or shouting across a crowded bar, the game gives people permission to take their time to share stories, laugh over lucky “jokers”, and oh yeahâ€Ļactually play the game.

In this modern era, one of the oldest games in human history is also one of the newest ways to make friends.   

So brush up that baffle box, champion a comeback shot and be grateful for that gin position.  Not sure what I'm talking about at all? 

Well you're in luck.  It seems there might just be a community to help me with thatâ€Ļ

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I hope you found something inspiring and meaningful in my content and until next time, explore the possibilities of NYC.

-Sugary

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