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The Sweet List Event Trust System
🍭 Sugary Sweet – Events we organize or co-host
â­ī¸ Trusted Source – Events from trusted contacts
🎲 Roll of the Dice – Eye-catching new discoveries we haven't tried
What each event includes:
  • Time & Place: 7:00 PM 📍 Bushwick
  • Social Battery Levels: Introvert đŸĒĢ to High Extrovert 🔋🔋🔋
  • Your People: Description so you know exactly who you'll meet and what energy to bring
  • Free or Ticketed Events: 🆓 or đŸŽŸī¸
  • Experience Marker Icons: 💎 Hidden Gem, 🎭 Interactive, 🍷 Social Hour, etc.
Whether you're seeking mindful moments or looking to make new friends, we've decoded the social dynamics so you can choose events that match your mood & energy level.
Sunday, August 30
đŸ”Ĩ 6th Annual So Long to Summer Soiree
An unapologetically abundant annual BBQ where the food keeps coming, the DJ keeps things moving, and a long summer afternoon gives way to one big, gloriously unfussy sendoff.
Time: 4:00 PM – 10:00 PM 📍 Brooklyn (Exact location after RSVP)
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋🔋 High Extrovert
Your People: Hungry friends, backyard-party people, summer loyalists, and anyone who knows the best gatherings are generous, unfussy, and full of people worth staying late for.
Your Experience: 🍖 Endless BBQ â€ĸ 🎧 Live DJ â€ĸ đŸĨ‚ BYO Beverages
Wednesday, September 2
🎷 Sugary Invites You to SummerStage: Celebrating Verve’s 70th Anniversary
A free night of world-class jazz and bossa nova celebrating Verve Records, featuring Samara Joy, Christian McBride, Mei Semones & Friends, and an opening DJ set by Sparklmami
Time: 7:00 PM 📍 Rumsey Playfield, Central Park
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋 Medium Extrovert
Your People: Jazz lovers, vinyl collectors, bossa nova devotees, and New Yorkers who want to experience legendary music with the Sugary community under the summer sky.
Your Experience: 🆓 Free â€ĸ 🎷 Live Jazz â€ĸ đŸŒŗ SummerStage
Sweetener: The first 75 approved RSVPs receive express check-in. Doors open at 6:00 PM; arrive early, as entry is subject to venue capacity.
Wednesday, September 9
💸 Creator Economy NYC's Money Moves Mixer & Panel with Relay
A creator economy deep dive into making real money without rebuilding the job you escaped, covering partnerships, pricing, products, revenue diversification, and the systems that keep growth sustainable.
Time: 6:30 PM – 9:30 PM 📍 New York City (Location shared after approval)
Social Battery: 🔋🔋🔋 Medium Extrovert
Your People: Creators, founders, marketers, and operators turning audiences into businesses without losing the freedom that made them start in the first place.
Your Experience: 💸 Monetization â€ĸ 🎤 Live Panel â€ĸ 🤝 Creator Networking
Monday, September 14
đŸŽģ Artist Fellow James Díaz Performs
GRAMMY-nominated composer James Díaz brings experimental classical music into intimate focus with a live performance exploring imagined spaces, shifting sonic environments, and the ways sound can transform our perception.
Time: 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM 📍 The National Arts Club, Gramercy Park
Social Battery: 🔋 Low Extrovert
Your People: Contemporary classical listeners, sonic experimenters, composers, and curious New Yorkers who like discovering music that challenges how they hear and perceive a space.
Your Experience: 🆓 Free â€ĸ đŸŽŧ Contemporary Classical â€ĸ đŸŽģ Live Performance

Photo Credit: Juan PatiÃąo

One of the things I love about this city is its propensity for pageantry and serendipity. Often times these two forces cross paths and it's nothing short of amazing. NYC is just teeming with interesting characters and moments that happen around the countless experiences at every turn of the corner available to you. And because we are all packed on top of each other, you truly never know what will happen from one moment to the next. You get the privilege to capture a woman like this, it's exciting and thrilling. I knew when I asked my dear friend Juan PatiÃąo to send me one of his shots. I had a feeling that it would probably be pretty awesome given he is truly renaissance man about town and has a spirit that is perpetually as curious as it is generous. When I asked him for one image, he sent me ten and so many of them were amazing. However, there was something about this shot that I enjoyed because of its energy and because there were so many things that were going on yet it all seemed to come together.

Another quintessential NYC collision on any given day... or night.

Artistic Statement

This is a photo that was taken on July 2013 at the corner of Astor Place & Broadway.

Artistic Statement

I feel very lucky to say that I get to spend my 9-5 photographing advertising jobs, branding, marketing campaigns, and executive headshots; however, it’s the after-hours sessions that often yield the happiest backstories. Such was the case with this portrait of an old muse I captured in Greenwich Village at the corner of Astor Place & Broadway in July of 2013. Having just left a late-night gig and shoot at JOE’s PUB, we made a pit stop at the legendary COZY Soup & Burger (R.I.P.) for their famous Matzoh Ball Soup. Reenergized, we then exited the diner after midnight, and the blazing 10,000-megawatt fluorescent lighting at the entrance to the adjacent parking garage seemed too good to pass up. I quickly unpacked the cameras and leapt into action. Just as my stunning model started to dance through her signature moves, this equally stunning late 70s classic Fiat 124 Sport Spider convertible pulled up, and the gentleman asked if he could watch for a bit. “Yes, sir, even better,” I replied. “Could you nudge this dream car from my early childhood (yes, I had the Matchboxâ„ĸ version of it in 2nd grade) a few yards forward so it’s directly behind our model?” The rest was history, and this frame was the 6th of many classic shots that followed over the next few minutes. 

It seemed only fair to share this image with Sugary’s “Eye-Candy” series because he has done such a tremendous job of building community and creating opportunities for magical NYC moments just like this one. It also seemed relevant because it serves as a reminder that walking these city streets can occasionally unfold into the happiest twists of fate. A few closing words about me: I started here in NYC singing jingles and producing records for Lisa Loeb and Jewel, but a eureka moment at the end of my 2010 summer tour singing with Hall & Oates triggered my glorious pivot from pop music to commercial photography.

For more incredible photos, please follow Juan PatiÃąo HERE.

If you have any amazing photos you’ve taken or that you’ve come across, that you think are simply incredible representations of community and culture in NYC, please send them my way [email protected] (when sending, please include photo credit as well as the location in NYC where this was taken and when as well as a brief description no more than a paragraph long of what’s happening in the photo and why it inspires you.)

It may be hard to ignore the hegemony of pickleball and padel infiltrating into every aspect of our sporting and cultural consciousness, but the community surrounding its root origins of tennis is in fact thriving and well and they are best exemplified in communities such as Love & Lob.

The New York–based tennis club describes its mission as “cultivating community & the timeless joy of tennis,” and that spirit comes through in the way it approaches the sport.

Rather than treating tennis purely as competition or instruction, Love & Lob creates social experiences around the game giving people a reason to get on the court, meet others, and make playing part of their regular lives. The formula isn’t new, but it doesn't have to be especially if a sport such as tennis is so steeply rooted in tradition, history, and legacy.

This is obviously not like joining a traditional tennis club at your nearby country club and more like entering a social world that happens to revolve around rackets.

Love & Lob organizes casual play, community days, excursions, and special events that bring together players with different levels of experience. The emphasis is on participation and repeat connection: play a few sets, meet someone new, see them again at another gathering, and gradually become part of a familiar group.

And if you think about it, there’s something about tennis that lends itself particularly well to this kind of community-building. It gives strangers an immediate activity to share, removes the pressure to constantly make conversation, and still leaves plenty of room for interaction between points and after matches. For beginners, it can make a sport that sometimes feels intimidating much more approachable; for experienced players, it adds a social dimension that goes beyond simply finding someone at the same skill level.

In doing so, Love & Lob fits into what has been a larger shift happening around New York City, where increasingly people are building friendships around activities rather than traditional nightlife. This kind of low-pressure social infrastructure is clearly what more people are gathering towards these days.

So pick up a game. Accept the service of Love & Lob and remember... It's all love.   

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Fabrik is a home for communities and where everyone has a place to belong. With spaces designed to feel more like your living room than your office, Fabrik’s 'third spaces' are vibrant hubs where you can come together in real life, explore interests, forge meaningful connections, and enjoy a sense of community.

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Thank you for taking the time to read to the end!

I hope you found something inspiring and meaningful in my content and until next time, explore the possibilities of NYC.

-Sugary

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